A woman needs to take the life of her unborn child because she has no room at home for them. She knows that what she takes could prove the end for her life on earth, but her husband begs her to as the financial strain is too great.
She survives and asks the God that she believes in to forgive her for what she has done. Later, she finds herself pregnant again, life has continued to serve this couple with limitations. Her husband asks her to do the same, she is torn between what she see’s as sin and obedience to the world she is in.
Do you make a judgement on this family?
If I told you they live in Haiti would you look at this circumstance differently?
We in North America have many blessings that sadly we think it allows us to offer our opinions on things that we could never begin to understand. I am often asked why my daughter’s mother just doesn’t take birth control. Why does she keep having kids?
Like life in Haiti has somehow offered her choices.
Who are we as people to turn to the person on our right or left and judge them for their actions, limitations and life choices? Our opinions of others are based on the lenses we see life through, not the reality they live in.
I carry the shame for the many times I have assumed I knew better, the naivety that I carried that made me think it was my place to weigh in on someone’s life. If we are asked, our words should still be tempered to understand we do not see the hidden corners of someones heart.
If we are not asked, why is what we think so important?